Exam blues? Here’s a pick-me-up

The giving out of free drinks or snacks to boost the morale of university students during the examination period is a familiar sight here. But there were some new twists during the exam crunch time that ended last week.Take, for instance, the While You Were Sleeping project started last month by freelance video producer and film-maker Josiah Ng, 24.

Mr Ng, a former undergraduate of Singapore Management University, told my paper last week that he noticed how university students would get stressed and tired while preparing for their exams.

University exams here typically take place between April and May, and again from November to December.

To help other young adults cope with the stress during the recent exam period, he decided to embark on the project.

It involved simply placing a handwritten card, along with a snack or drink, next to students who had fallen asleep while studying, to let them know that someone cared.

After a video on the project was posted online, its Facebook page received 1,000 likes in just one day. As of 6pm yesterday, it had garnered over 2,600 likes.

In addition to netizens here, some overseas users – such as those from Australia, Canada and Britain – have also pledged to take part in the project.

“I have absolutely no idea how it spread so quickly. I’m still quite overwhelmed, to be honest,” said Mr Ng, who paid for the snacks and drinks out of his own pocket and visited students at three universities here.

Student groups have also upped their game to help students through the exam period.

The National University of Singapore Students’ Union held free yoga classes for two weeks to help students cope with stress during the exam period this year.

Ms Mabel Koh, 21, the union’s deputy welfare secretary, said the four classes attracted over 90 sign-ups and “feedback from the students was positive”.

This was on top of leaving cans of energy drinks tagged with encouraging messages on benches around the campus at night, for students who would pass by the next day.

Students at the Nanyang Technological University’s Wee Kim Wee School of Communication and Information also received free food and drinks during the exam period, thanks to a student group’s informal Wee Mug event.

Ms Sophial Foo, 21, president of the Communication and Information Club, said it was “very rewarding” to “keep the tired students going”.

This article was first published in myPaper

Innoweek Kindness Gallery Tour with the Little Ones

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In conjunction with MOE’s Innoweek, Singapore Kindness Movement (SKM) collaborated with Temasek Polytechnic’s School of Humanities and Social Sciences, in particular, the Early Childhood Education course. Year 1 students from this course volunteered at the gallery tour which was held from 26th to 30th March.

That week, SKM was thrilled to welcome a total of 550 children and 36 teachers to be a part of our team to reinforce the importance of kindness in our precious little ones. It is important that we instil in our young children the necessity of being a kind individual so that we can guide them away from the trap of paramount, which may be prevalent in our kindergarten children.

A gallery tour, along with a story-telling session was conducted. The children were also encouraged to design a ‘Thank You’ card for their parents or loved ones in an art and craft session. The children were zealous and eager to learn about Singa and the kindness cubbies  and through the animation series, they were able to identify issues and correct them!

The week may have drawn to an end, but the spirit to spread kindness continues on. Let’s work together to make someone’s day and most importantly, be that ‘hero’ and ‘heroine’ in the eyes of our little ones to model!

This article was first published in Singapore Kindness Movement

Project Uplift

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Ever wondered how long it takes to brighten someone’s day?

A group of students from the University of Buffalo decided to test this by handing out helium balloons inked with messages of Kindness.

Project Uplift was held on Monday, 26 March 2012, at Raffles Place Park. The students definitely chased away the Monday blues when they surprised passersby with 600 bright yellow and white balloons. To encourage bashful adults to pick up a balloon and spread kindness, the students even did a “battle of the sexes” scoreboard. Each time a passerby picked up a balloon and wrote a kind note for a random stranger, a point is added to the scoreboard. Curious to know which gender won the battle? You can visit the team’s Facebook page to find out!

Indeed, there is always time to make someone’s day. All you need to do is slow down and give a small encouragement to someone.

Project Uplift was supported by National Parks, SIM-UB Professor Stephanie Pollack and funded by SKM’s Seed Kindness Fund.

This article was first published in Singapore Kindness Movement

Imagine a world without volunteers

Volunteers are part of the team that makes a non-profit work. However, a management infrastructure is required to unleash their potential.

By SUSAN J ELLIS

Volunteering is a vital element in what is called “civil society”. Private citizens willing to contribute their time, thinking, hands and minds to improving the communities in which they live can often accomplish as much as or more than Government, businesses or established institutions can. This is the essence of participatory democracy and the root of social change.

Volunteers are always on the cutting-edge of change because they see things that should be done before anyone else addresses those needs. The first individuals who recognised the enormity of AIDS, child abuse, how we treat dying people, and other critical problems were community leaders who mobilised other early volunteers to create care centres, hospices and other types of services now fully funded by Government and non-profit foundations. Volunteers have been and still are pioneers, mavericks and visionaries.

Volunteering is often mutual aid. People with common characteristics or shared needs will find ways to work together towards common goals. When voluntary action moves beyond personal, familial or neighbourhood networks, and begins to have an impact on the larger community, new organisations are formed, new legislation is championed, and the effort becomes far more inclusive than exclusive.

Note that volunteering is not inherently right or good. People support causes that are controversial or adversarial. Volunteers can be found on both sides of issues, pro and con, of all political parties, with different religious convictions, and with a range of self-interests. This too is part of a functioning democracy. Volunteering is a methodology for accomplishing end results, not an end unto itself.

 

Cheap labour?

When the economy is bad, politicians and agency executives re-discover volunteering as “free labour”. This is frustrating because the community needs both sufficient funding anddedicated volunteers. Those who think volunteers are a cheap workforce soon discover that having volunteers cost real money and time to coordinate them effectively (and volunteering certainly costs volunteers in time and, often indirectly, money). Even in the best of times, engagement of volunteers is too often invisible at the executive level and too few people have formal training in successful volunteer management. Non-profit leaders want to learn how to raise money, create a strong and meaningful brand, and manage employees. It is just as important to learn the best practices of working with volunteers on a day-to-day basis.

Successful volunteering does not come from spontaneous combustion. Most organisations are complex and, unless organisations develop clear ways for volunteers to participate in activities, people really do not know how they can contribute. Or worse, they start doing all sorts of things that are not helpful at all. Involving volunteers in the right way offers endless opportunities for accomplishing many things, while inattention to volunteer involvement can waste everyone’s time and energy. It is a form of volunteer recognition to establish standards for volunteer accomplishments but the best volunteer management serves to enable volunteer achievement, not limit it.

Executives must have the conviction that volunteers are important. They must understand that volunteers are:

  • Part of the human resources team that makes the organisation work.
  • Part of the organisation’s “brain”. While common symbols of volunteering are hearts and hands, the most effective volunteers also offer their minds and voices, adding both skills and ideas to those of the paid staff.
  • “Time donors”, whose contributions parallel those of money donors. It makes great sense to approach both fundraising and volunteer development as people-raising or friend-raising. The same people may give both funds and time, either simultaneously or alternating their engagement as their life cycle permits. The overall goal is a wide circle of continuing supporters, of which volunteers are an active, hands-on corps.
  • Unique in enabling an organisation to experiment with or test new service/programme ideas before attempting to raise funds to enlarge and maintain them.
  • A source of vital input from the community, offering points of view quite different from that of the paid staff and often more informed about the perspective of the people served. Conversely, volunteers are enthusiastic ambassadors for the organisation back to the community, if they are satisfied with their work (another reason to make sure of that satisfaction!).

Organisations that look at volunteer involvement in these ways will develop the management infrastructure to assure the potential is unleashed.

 

The benefits of volunteering

Finally, volunteers deserve to benefit from their contributed services. Altruism and selflessness are attributes of old-fashioned charity or noblesse oblige. The best volunteer situation is one of an exchange, in which both the giver and the receiver gain something that they each value. At different times throughout our lives, we all need help of some sort; at other times, we all discover we can assist someone else. Volunteering is a way to:

  • Make a difference and campaign for causes that matter to us.
  • Learn new skills or apply what we already know in new ways.
  • Make new friends.
  • Explore careers and build a resume.
  • Expand our world view.
  • Use free time productively (for those few who have free time, of course).
  • Enjoy ourselves.
  • Be a part of something bigger than ourselves.

The list of benefits is much longer than this, but it is clear that volunteering is a choice to use our time in ways that we often cannot do through our paid jobs, family obligations or other avenues.

 

Susan J Ellis is the president of Energize, Inc in the US. She will be in Singapore on May 22 to 24 as a guest speaker for the three-day Volunteerism Conference organised by NVPC.

(** PHOTO CREDITS: SG Cares)

This article was first published in SALT