Tutor, innovator and repeat student

He started out trying to teach teens to think, through General Paper (GP) tuition. Now Mr Tong Yee has “graduated” to their parents.

He wants to teach adult Singaporeans about social participation. “I don’t think Singaporeans understand completely what it’s about. They complain but complaining is not the same as participating,” says the co-founder of Thought Collective, a fast-expanding social enterprise with 110 employees which runs an English and GP tuition school, two cafes, a magazine printing arm and educational trails.

The 38-year-old brims with thoughtful, original solutions for today’s social ills. His goal: to build stronger social capital here.

He plans to set up a civic museum in Queen Street by the middle of next year. Based on a pop-up “pasar malam” (night market) concept, it will feature an ever-changing array of “citizen-led” artefacts. If the theme is, say, fear in Singapore, people will be asked to bring in items that symbolise trepidation for them, like their O-level certificates or a bamboo cane.

The topics will closely follow current affairs, so that it will become a museum of contemporary culture, where visitors can peek into the local psyche. It will also be a launch pad for adult civic education classes, somewhat like The School Of Life in London.

He also plans to start a Singapore version of the social issues magazine, The Big Issue, sold on the streets of Britain by homeless people, except that it will be hawked by poorer students here who need levelling up.

To deal with the creeping spectre of social intolerance and unneighbourliness here, he’s got fixes figured out too.

Many commercial building and mall lifts now broadcast ads but not the lifts in HDB blocks which, he notes, is the case probably to steer clear of commercial activity.

He is now exploring with HDB and Central Singapore Community Development Council the possibility of showing videos of the lives of people in the neighbourhood to break Singaporeans out of their insularity.

He sees these HDB lifts as the perfect neutral “civic space” to push social agendas and build a sense of community. “When we get into a lift, the first thing is our phones get shut off. Those 15 seconds it takes to go up and down are very valuable because it’s the time when we go to work and come home that we ask ourselves what it’s all about,” he notes.

The images he hopes to show are not those of impoverished elderly folk living in rental blocks but rather “Auntie, come take picture with us” – social media-style camera phone footage taken by students interacting with the elderly on ground-up community service projects.

He sees this as a needed antidote to the toxic narrative among some right now, that “Singapore is a sucky society; we don’t give a toss about our older people”, which he feels is very “unbalanced”. To him, the best way to mitigate the Not In My Backyard Syndrome – used to describe the public outcry over senior activity centres (SACs) being built in various places here – is to turn such centres into property-value boosting assets rather than liabilities.

He has been working with Thye Hua Kwan Moral Society and other voluntary welfare groups which run SACs on how to get people to see them “not as money suckers but as service providers”, and to see senior citizens as “service providers rather than just beneficiaries”.

One way, he suggests, is having the elderly offer childcare services and cooked meals, which would make such facilities a sought-after addition to any void deck. This can easily materialise within 10 to 15 years, as the next cohort of elderly are more skilled.

Right now, he acknowledges, many of the abandoned elderly have few skills. But after studying a rental block – Toa Payoh Lorong 7’s Block 15 – over the past year, he noticed the elderly there had riveting stories to tell.

He has since roped in 10 of them as story tellers for his Social Cohesion trail, which started in February last year and has seen around 700 student participants. The students, who each pay about $15, gain insight and the elderly receive a sustainable income. Eight half-hour story-telling sessions get them about $200, enough for their monthly needs.

Each time, upon entering the block, he notices the participants recoil because the residents’ problems intimidate like “a big black hole that will suck them in”. “But once they are invited into a home, you see an emotional shift. After talking, they realise that actually the needs are not so big… The old person just needs $26 a month for subsidised rental.”

As for uncoordinated efforts on the ground to help the poor, which he noticed at Block 15, he’s working on a mobile app to change that.

Many helping hands are extended to needy residents here but often the efforts overlap. One elderly woman he talked to, who didn’t even like Milo, had 15 tins stacked against the wall – donated by various charities.

He has been developing an app that schoolchildren can run when doing their community service projects. After chatting with a rental flat occupant, they can key in the apartment number, needs and who is already providing what across the calendar year. He expects to launch it next year.

Lien Centre For Social Innovation’s manager Jared Tham, 34, who has known Mr Tong for about a decade, says Mr Tong’s sense of personal mission is clear to all who know him – to expand the social and emotional capacity of Singapore youth. It takes courage to take this untravelled path “in a Singapore where everyone expects the Government to be all things to all people”, he says.

Rudderless youth

He was a serial repeat student who often felt rudderless. Today, he is a super-tutor determined to spare his students his lost years.

Mr Tong spent his formative years in England, where his father, who comes from a shipping family, was doing his postgraduate education. His mother was a commodities trader and they returned to Singapore when he was 11, where he struggled to fit into Nanyang Primary, then Catholic High School. His younger sister was streamed into the Gifted Education Programme while he floundered, repeated his O levels and spent the year watching movies.

He learnt how to drive on his own, never bothered to get a licence and was arrested on the road at 21. But at Nanyang Junior College, GP tutor Hamimah Abu listened to him, and turned his life around.

“She lovingly affirmed my ‘gifts’ and demonstrated what a life that was dedicated to the contribution of others looked like,” he says. Unfortunately, after mentoring him for 10 years, she died after a traffic accident in Tasmania in 2003.

He scraped into the National University of Singapore’s Theatre Studies faculty with C,C and D grades and an A1 for GP, and repeated his final year there too.

It was only at the National Institute of Education that he found his calling. He returned to Nanyang JC to teach GP, on relief-teacher terms because of his criminal record, till he was reinstated to the full terms after two years.

He started noticing the plight of many repeat students. They did well enough for a full A-level certificate but failed to get into any local university. No junior college would take them, private tuition for all subjects for a year was costly, and self-study was daunting.

He started taking them under his wing, roping in tutors and giving them free GP tuition at fast-food outlets. Within a year, 25 students mushroomed to 400. That was how School Of Thought started in 2002, as a community service programme to help repeat students falling through the cracks.

Due to sheer demand, by 2006, he quit to set up formalised GP tuition classes at a 1,500 sq ft space in North Bridge Road with two partners, Ms Elizabeth Kon, 37, and Ms Kuik Shiao Yin, 35. Before long, enrolment grew from 15 to 200, and then 800. It now has 2,000 students and a waiting list of 600, with children as young as 11 in the queue.

A year later, they launched their first eatery serving locally sourced food, now in Queen Street, and another at Botanic Gardens, and soon in a museum in the civic area. In 2009, they started Thinkscape, to bring Singapore’s history to life with heritage trails of Little India and Geylang, weaving in issues such as income disparity.

From the start, Thought Collective chose the social enterprise route, never seeking government funding or public donations. “Generally, any businessman worth his salt will tell you that if you need government funding to start your business, you’re going to collapse anyway. But if your business model is good, it will sustain itself.”

He’s since learnt that “if you show you can stand on your own two feet and you are for Singapore, many agencies are willing to help”. On National Day, he and his friends spent $13,000 of their own money to launch Stand Up For Singapore, where they roped in 300 young people to distribute badges across MRT stations to encourage commuters to give up their seats to those who need it.

The flash mob effort was their attempt to counter “recent negativity in a positive way” and build social capital. Since then, the Ministry of Transport and SMRT have expressed interest to come on board and support them for their next outing around Christmas.

Tuition-free nation

To journey with his students all the way and put what he teaches to the test, he has taken the A-level GP paper as a private candidate over the past eight years.

Twice, he confides with a grimace, he scored a B. “I got carried away, too much knowledge, wanted to show off.” He is still sore about it but doesn’t mind sharing the “value in failure”.

Although other super-tutors in his league who can command an audience earn more than $50,000 a month or above half a million dollars a year, he and his partners have capped their per-hour wages because of their “value system”.

He makes from $4,000 to $12,000 a month, depending on hours clocked. “You need only so much to live responsibly, even in high-cost Singapore,” says the Christian father of two toddlers who is married to an accountant.

Although half of Thought Collective’s revenue comes from tuition, his hope is to phase out tuition for its own sake in his lifetime. To that end, his group freely imparts lessons learnt on engaging youth with mainstream schools. “One of the interesting things about teaching in the private sector is that students are not beholden to you. If you suck, they will walk. And because of that, there’s always immediate feedback,” he says.

So far, about one-third of all junior colleges here have asked his group to share best practices and how to integrate civic and character education into GP.

His other aim is to help close the income gap in Singapore and “increase the social capital” of poorer students. Up to a third of his students used to receive a fee subsidy given by the school, with the poorest paying $60 a month. The normal fees are $200 a month, one third less than the market rate outside.

He says he manages to percolate so many ideas because he avoids wasting time “emo-ing and angst-ing”. “A day can be very productive, if we are not so scared of people judging us and just doing it,” he says. And so he gets on with the business of change, one student at a time.

Source: The Straits Times

Struck with lymphoma cancer at 23

June 2009 started out like any other school holiday for Mr Raymond Tan.

Then 23 years old, he had just finished his third year in theatre studies at the National University of Singapore (NUS) and was lazing about at home and hanging out with friends.

He had one more year to go before graduating. He had no idea what he wanted to do after that but he was not overly worried. Life stretched out in front of him and things would just fall on his lap, he thought.

He was, however, feeling a little down because his 80-year-old grandmother, who had raised him, died at the end of May that year. She was diagnosed with stomach cancer about six months earlier. He comforted himself with the thought that she had led a long and relatively happy life.

But it turned out that his grandmother’s death was not the only bad news to hit him that school holiday. Something else happened which changed his world forever.

On the third day of his grandmother’s wake, he woke up with a throbbing pain in his chest.

When it would not go away after he took painkillers, he went to see the family doctor, who found nothing but advised him to go to the hospital’s accident and emergency department.

He said: “I felt a bit worried. I thought I was on the verge of a heart attack. My father has a history of heart disease while my grandfather died many years ago from a heart attack.”

But at the hospital, he was not prepared for what he saw on the X-ray of his chest. He said: “There was a black mass about the size of my fist near my heart.”

The doctor told him it was likely to be cancer.

The next three days, as he waited for the result of the biopsy, were the closest he felt to death because he did not know how serious his condition was.

Depression

When the results came back, he was somewhat relieved.

The doctor told him he had an aggressive form of lymphoma cancer called mediastinal large B-cell lymphoma, which was growing on the lymph nodes in his chest. The rare cancer tends to occur in the young.

It was at a relatively early stage as the cancer had not spread beyond the lymph nodes.

The good news was, mediastinal large B-cell lymphoma tends to respond well to treatment.

Over the next six months, he went through six cycles of aggressive chemotherapy, once every two weeks, followed by 20 rounds of daily radiotherapy.

When his hair came out in clumps after the first chemotherapy cycle, he shaved it off. His worst experience came after the third cycle.

Mr Tan, who describes himself as a fairly optimistic person, said the nausea and vomiting was so bad he sank into depression.

He said: “I was vomiting every few hours. I couldn’t hold down any food except for a piece of bread or biscuit.” Negative thoughts abounded.

He said: “I thought about my peers going on with school and wondered why this had to happen to me.”

As his illness had occurred during an outbreak of influenza, his mother, a 62-year-old administrative clerk, forbade him from having visitors to prevent him from catching the flu from them.

Mr Tan resented the isolation and having to depend on everyone else. He had to be accompanied each time he went for a chemotherapy session. One of the chemotherapy drugs made his head feel prickly, almost as if he had eaten too much wasabi.

His mother took unpaid leave for his first two weeks of treatment and then for each of his chemotherapy sessions.

She lost almost as much weight as he did as a result of exhaustion and worry. After she went back to work, his aunt came by every day to cook lunch and dinner for him.

Touched by the concern of those around him, he slowly emerged from his depression.

His twin brother, who was then studying economics at NUS, would tell him jokes and show him funny videos to make him laugh. His father, a 69-year-old operations manager, and his sister, a 32-year-old senior executive, would often ask about his health.

Whenever possible, they also took turns to drive him to the hospital for his check-ups.

Slowly, he started to feel stronger and was able to go for radiotherapy on his own.

When it all ended, his doctor said he had responded well. Six months after his diagnosis, he was able to go back to school for his final year of studies and graduated in December 2010.

He now works as a relief teacher in a secondary school and writes movie reviews for magazines as a sideline.

But he wants to do more. He is now pursuing a master’s degree in counselling, something which he had considered but did not pursue until now.

His goal is to be a counsellor who works with young people or other cancer survivors.

He said: “Having cancer makes you very focused on what you want in life. You realise that your time here is limited. There is a sense of urgency and you don’t muck around anymore, waiting for things to fall on your lap.”

His diet and lifestyle have also undergone a change. He pays attention to what he eats.

He said: “I eat more greens and I think twice about eating fast food, ice cream or fried hawker food such as char kway teow.”

Regular exercise is now part of his life, when it did not use to be. He goes to the gym twice a week for about an hour each time during which he jogs on the treadmill and does weight-lifting.

He said: “To prevent a relapse, I have to live healthily and responsibly. I cannot afford to take chances.”

Disease which mainly affects the young

Mediastinal large B-cell lymphoma is a rare form of lymphoma cancer, accounting for about 2 to 3 per cent of all lymphomas, according to the National Cancer Centre Singapore (NCCS).

For unknown reasons, it tends to occur in young people aged 25 to 40.

It leads to swelling of the thymus gland and lymph nodes in the mediastinum.

This is the part of the body inside the chest, between the lungs and behind the breast bone.

Symptoms are breathlessness and discomfort in the chest.

It is a high-grade lymphoma, which means it grows rapidly and needs to be treated immediately.

The good news is it responds well to treatment, which is usually a few chemotherapy drugs combined with a monoclonal antibody, a class of agents that target specific proteins on the surface of cancer cells and stimulates the body’s immune system to destroy these cells.

The NCCS found that after treatment, more than 80 per cent of its patients remained in remission after five years.

Mediastinal large B-cell lymphoma belongs to group of lymphoma called diffuse large B-cell lypmphoma, which is the most common type of lymphoma cancer in Asia.

Lymphoma cancer is a cancer of the lymphatic system, which is part of the body’s immune system that helps fight infection. The lyphmatic system includes the thymus gland and the lymph nodes.

Lymphoma cancer, of which non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma is the most common, happens when lymphocytes (a type of white blood cell found in the lymphatic system) grow in an uncontrolled way.

There are two main types of lymphocytes – B-cells and T-cells.

Cancer involving B-cell lymphocytes are more common.

Diffuse large B-cell lymphoma is the most common type of aggressive non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma.

Source: Associate Professor Lim Soon Thye, the deputy head and senior consultant at the department of medical oncology at the National Cancer Centre Singapore

On Nov 18, the 26-year-old will be taking part in Run For Hope, a fund-raising event for cancer patients.

While cancer is not a good thing in itself, he said it has taught him invaluable lessons. He said: “I appreciate my family more and I am more empathetic towards people in general.”

RUN FOR HOPE

Join a 3.5km or 10km run to raise funds for NCC Research Fund, which is managed by National Cancer Centre Singapore.

Details

Date: Sunday, Nov 18
Location: The Padang, 7am  
Price: $45 for an adult; $25 for a child/youth aged five to 18; Buddies special ($80 for two adults); Group special (20 adults or more – $35 each).  
Children below the age of four have free entry.

Sign up or donate on Runforhopesingapore.org

Source: The Straits Times

“I am happy that our efforts brought smiles to their faces”

Barely a month after she joined the Singapore Red Cross (SRC) as a volunteer, a medical undergraduate was sent to an earthquake-hit region in China for relief operations.

But Miss Wu Wei, 20, a Chinese national studying at the National University of Singapore (NUS), was not deterred.

She said: “I got a phone call from SRC and was given an hour to make a decision. I felt unprepared, but I thought it was a good opportunity for me to experience relief work in a disaster zone.”

Two earthquakes of 5.6 magnitude had hit a mountainous region in Yunnan, China, on Sept 7, killing at least 89 people and injuring 820 others. More than 200,000 people were displaced.

The earthquakes devastated the impoverished region in south-western China.

The SRC sent a five-member team, consisting of two SRC employees and three volunteers who are NUS medical students, to the disaster zone last Friday.

Miss Wu, a first-year NUS medical student, was the youngest in the team.

She came from Fujian, China, to Singapore on a scholarship five years ago and studied at Singapore Chinese Girls’ School and Victoria Junior College.

The team faced several hurdles when they landed in Yunnan’s capital, Kunming, at 7am.

Heavy rains and landslides after the earthquake made it difficult for them to reach the disaster site.

It took five hours by van to reach Zhaotong city and another hour’s drive before they arrived at Yiliang, which is about 3km from the epicentre of one of the earthquakes.

The county was the worst hit, with more than 7,000 homes demolished.

Mr Dominic Leong, 30, SRC’s corporate communications executive, was part of the relief team.

Recalling the damage caused by the earthquake, he said: “There were completely flattened homes, abandoned vehicles and large boulders on the roads.

“We saw some family photographs among the rubble of a house that was destroyed by a large boulder.

I couldn’t help but wonder if they had managed to survive.”

One encounter stuck in Miss Wu’s mind.

She had met a mother who almost lost her two-month-old baby girl.

She said: “The woman was very calm at first, but she started sobbing when she recounted her story.

“She said that she was outside when the earthquake happened and she rushed back to her house to save her child.”

Mr Wong Chun Yew, who is in his early 40s and head of SRC’s international services, was also part of the team.

He was impressed by the resilience of the survivors he met.

“At the village, there was a simple ceremony and we distributed the rice. Everyone was very organised and friendly.

“I am happy that our efforts brought smiles to their faces,” he said.

The SRC sent $200,000 worth of aid, which amounted to 200 tonnes of rice. The Singapore Government donated $50,000 to the relief operations.

The entire mission took 72 hours and the team returned to Singapore on Monday morning.

Mr Wong said: “In many events, there is very little time to prepare and many unknowns, so the volunteers have to be mentally and physically hardy.”

Miss Wu was glad that she was able to extend help to the country that she grew up in.

She said: “I have travelled to Yunnan for holidays before. It is a really beautiful place, blessed with natural scenery.

“The people are also very simple and genuine. I felt very sad to see so many homes destroyed during the earthquake.”

She also said that her encounter with the mother has inspired her to contribute more to society.

She said: “When I was talking to her, I kept telling her that everything was going to be okay, but there was nothing more that I could do.

“It made me realise that what I can do is very limited. I am now motivated to try harder to contribute more.”

This article was first published in The New Paper.

She hopes her own music will help her see

Her vision is limited to some light, shadows and colours.

But that hasn’t kept Adelyn Koh, 11, from pursuits like music and in-line skating.

Now, she’s hoping a CD of her own piano compositions can raise funds for an operation that will help her see.

Explained her mother, Ms Mary Lim, 39: “There’s still a long way to go. I can’t be with her forever.”

Adelyn was born with opaque corneas, or Peter’s Anomaly, a rare congenital eye disease.

She had four unsuccessful corneal transplants in the first year of her life.

Last year, Ms Lim came across news of Boston Kpro, an artificial corneal transplant – different from the natural transplants that Adelyn’s body had rejected.

She contacted Dr Leonard Ang of The Eye & Cornea Transplant Centre, who said there could be new hope for Adelyn.

But cost is a problem.

Surgery is expected to cost about $40,000 per eye, far more than what Ms Lim, a divorcee, can afford.

She earns $1,500 a month as a before-and-after-school student care teacher.

Adelyn has two younger sisters, aged five and six years old, who are healthy.

“I didn’t want my Adelyn to feel like mummy had to beg people for help,” said Ms Lim.

That is how the idea of making and selling the CD came about.

Adelyn had been composing music for some years.

When Ms Lim first sent her for piano lessons at the age of three, she did not have such expectations of her daughter.

She said: “I told the teacher it didn’t matter how long it would take her to practise a song; it was more important for her to enjoy the process.”

But Adelyn turned out to have talent.

Mandarin duet

In October last year, she teamed up with Singapore Idol 3 winner Sezairi Sezali to sing a Mandarin duet for the President’s Star Charity.

Said Adelyn, who recently passed her Grade 4 piano examinations with distinction: “I like to hear music. When I play the piano, sometimes I get so engrossed in playing that someone will be calling and I don’t hear them.”

She composes by thinking of the beginning or the middle of a song and practising it. From there, she figures out sections and accompaniment which could be built around the “simple tune”.

Constructing the CD’s four piano pieces took her two years, the Primary 5 pupil at Lighthouse School said.

“I play randomly – I play a tune for five minutes and change it as and when I like.”

Last month, Ms Lim produced 500 copies of Adelyn’s CD with the help of friends.

She then sold the CDs “Little Dream” to friends for $20 each. It was sold out within two weeks.

A second instalment of 1,000 copies has seen much demand following reports in Chinese daily Lianhe Wanbao and online portal AsiaOne.

Said Ms Lim, who had e-mail enquiries from as far as Brazil and Switzerland: “We didn’t know how sales would go, and everyone’s been so caring.

“We’d like to raise enough to cover the cost of the operation, nothing extra.”

She has not yet decided whether to print more copies of the CD.

In her five-room Punggol home, the living room is kept as clear space. Clothes racks, the dining table, and a Christofori piano are placed by the walls.

Adelyn also has a small violin, and is taking her Grade 1 violin examination this week.

Ms Lim said she tries to ensure Adelyn has a fruitful day. To that end, she allows her to try out all sorts of activities. At home, Adelyn listens to audio books and educational CDs.

Ms Lim has seen some of the visually impaired people at centres waiting for people to come to them before they get to walk about, and is determined that life for her daughter will be different.

She said: “I want to fill up her life.”

Adelyn said she isn’t sure what will happen, but “there are a lot of things I want to be”.

“A concert pianist, or a piano teacher. Maybe an author.”

Those interested in Adelyn’s story can visit adelynxinhui.blogspot.com